For a few weeks I did not feel the baby move at all. It's interesting how much I felt her move when she was teeny tiny...11 and 12 weeks old. So you'd think I'd feel her now that she's so much bigger. But I don't feel her move that often.
So recently I went a few weeks without feeling her move. Then last night she started moving and kicking. I am 19 weeks along, this Saturday.
So Athena (which is what we'll most likely name her) started moving and kicking that night and the next morning too. It's been really fun. I've also started feeling contractions that same night and almost all day today. That's not as fun. But I was still able to do my normal routine. Working out was a little difficult with the contractions.
My normal routine now...wake up to Ty getting up too early (6am). Telling Ty to go back to sleep. 6:30a get up and feed the kids breakfast. Eat breakfast, workout, shower, get us ready for the day. Teach my children...Tiberias' lessons first then Luke's time.
Feed the kids lunch. Let them play in their swimming pool to help ware Ty out so he will nap. Try to nap Ty (he usually stays in bed up to 40 minutes but doesn't sleep. Sometimes he gets up every five minutes trying to come downstairs).
Get some down time/relax time if Ty stays in his room...I put on a show for Luke.
Clean around my mom's house. And the rest of the day is free to take care of the kids and try to get little things done.
I text Sterling throughout the day. We text when I wake up...he's already gone to military school. We text at his lunch time...9 or 10am for me. We text whenever he gets a break or finishes class. And we text throughout the rest of the day. We often call or skype once in the evening. Sterling goes to bed before the little boys because of the time difference. So I text goodnights with Ster before I have to get the boys ready for bed.
Yesterday was a special day. We had a playdate. Met two moms with kids at the park. One was Tara from mom's ward, we planned the meet the day before, and the other woman was Tara's sister. So all the kids played at the park but it was way too hot at 9:30 in the morning. Then Tara came over with her son Andon and all three boys played in the pool. Tara and I are friends now...that's nice.
We went to the Inside Scoop restaurant after swimming. Well, Tara went home to shower and relax. But I took the boys and Mom to the Inside Scoop to meet a bunch of women mom had set up for Back to School celebration. The boys got to sit at their own table with another boy and play while they ate. They kept getting pretty loud but they were mostly fine through the lunch. Then as we were cleaning up to leave Ty said he needed to use the bathroom. It was right by us so I sent him in to go potty. A few seconds later I tried to go in as well. It's one of those single bathrooms like in a house. Ty had locked the door. I knew he couldn't get it open again because he had tried earlier when I was with him. It only took him a few seconds to figure out he was trapped and without mommy. He freaked out! It took maybe 4 minutes to get restaurant workers to break him out. But when I got into the bathroom his shorts were somehow in the toilet. How he did that and why? I don't know! So we had to bag his shorts and I had to carry him in wet underwear. Then mom bought the boys chocolate ice cream cones on the way out. So Ty, in the heat, got covered in chocolate ice cream! It melted fast. He then fell asleep on the car ride back to my mom's house. So I carried him in, covered in chocolate, to the house to clean him up and put him in bed. Then I was covered in all sorts of stuff and Ty didn't end up sleeping. So I finally changed my clothes....along with washing the car seat and floor mats in the car.
Tomorrow we are going to Zion's National Park to camp for a few days. Kids have school and adults have work so we're hoping to leave at 4pm tomorrow. It takes two hours to get there...I hear. And we'll need to stop at Walmart for any groceries needed for the camp menu.
We'll get there and set up camp then it will be dark so we'll just chill and go to bed. Saturday we'll play and hike all day. There's a creek of water to play in. And I have planned things for my kids and for the adults for fun. Then Sunday we'll relax and have a peaceful day. Then Monday we'll probably come home once we decide we're board of being there.
I am hoping the little boys will love it...even though it's hot and it's in the desert. They are excited to go camping.
Sterling and I have been spending too much money since we got to America. Taking everyone out to eat "on us" and buying things that are so readily available here. We're tight on money now. Need to cut back.
Tuesday next week I am having an ultrasound. I thought my ultrasound was going to be at my 16-20 wk appointment I had this week. But somehow they didn't order the ultrasound. Since I am suppose to have that by 20 weeks they had to order the ultrasound and ask me to come back. The only problem is I have to drive 45 from Logandale to Las Vegas to attend these visits. It's frustrating that they were not more together for this. Mom and my boys came with me for the ultrasound but it didn't happen. So now I have to go back on Tuesday for the ultrasound. I am not taking the boys this time! But hopefully mom will come. She's never been to one of my ultrasounds.
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Adjusting
On Wednesday Sterling and I left the boys with my parents and we went to Vegas for one night...before Sterling left for military cross-training.
It was so fun! We are so in love and we are best friends. We have so much fun together.
We walked part of The Strip Wednesday night when it was dark and the lights were all lit. Shopped at M&M's world...got stuff for all of us. So fun! Saw the Belaggio water show.
Thursday morning we had breakfast together at the hotel's buffet. Then I dropped Sterling off at the airport. It's not incredibly difficult to say goodbye.
So far he's not ever been gone more than two months. And this four month one will hopefully be split in half with a visit from or to Sterling. We'll hopefully get a weekend with him.
It will get harder to be apart...as time goes on.
But Sterling has it harder than we do. The boys and I are staying with family...lots of people to socialize with, live with and enjoy. Happy and familiar. Plus, I have a ton to do between taking care of the boys, homeschooling, helping my mom (with her sewing classes she teaches and with cleaning, cooking and organizing around the house), my hobbies and enjoying time away from the boys once in a while...because I have babysitters around all the time.
Sterling is in a new place with nobody he knows, no kids to take care of and no oven and stove to cook with. I don't know how much shooting he will get to do there, if any. I know he's on the beach so there's swimming and possibly fishing. No hunting. What else does he like to do? Woodwork. He likes reading and learning but he'll be doing a lot of that for school so I don't know if he'll want to do it during his leisure time as well.
He likes movies and tv as I do.
The little boys...so far they are doing really well about daddy being gone. They do say they miss him. They have talked to him once on the phone.
The first day without Sterling I felt two things 1) Overwhelmed by how much I had put off to do while Ster is away. I had a ton to do to prepare for school which was just a few days away.
2) Strange that Sterling was so far away and would not be with me for months.
When Sterling is gone for an extended period it can be like I am a single mother. I choose our schedules and base nothing around Sterling or his schedule. I discipline the children alone.
I do have the emotional support and the love of a man...that singles mother's don't often have.
Right before Sterling left Ty started wanting us to lay with him to go to sleep. I have done well to avoid this since Luke was a baby. I don't want to have to lay with my children to get them to sleep. I want them to self sooth and fall asleep on their own.
But...Sterling started laying with Ty. Now it's a problem. Right now Ty has been in his bedroom refusing to sleep for maybe 40 minutes. I refuse to lay with him. He has gotten up saying he needs to go to the bathroom, four times. He has gotten up to tell me he wants the music turned off. Gotten up to get spankings four times. And it crying and screaming "Mommy!" He has tried "I am not taking a nap" and "I am going downstairs." I keep putting him back to bed and leaving the room.
I don't know what to do. Luke was 1 1/2 yrs old when he did this...when he moved from his crib to a bed. He would need a nap so badly but would not stay in bed. It is horrible..no fun. Now I know Ty has done this before...when he moved to a real bed, I believe. But now, at three years old, he is doing it again. He needs a nap! But he is being difficult. And I don't know if I should lay with him for five to ten minutes, as I have done at bedtime at night the last few nights, or refuse to lay with him. It's going to be a fight every time if I don't lay with him. So far laying with him just a few minutes then saying "no, you just have to go to bed" has worked.
Today is Sunday. Sterling left of Thursday morning. We have been text messaging a lot...such a wonderful blessing. We have talked on the phone once a day also.
Sterling is a romantic. He tells me sweet things when we're apart. When we're together he tells me of the things he appreciates like a clean house and yummy meals and taking care of the kids. He tells me how much he loves me and what he loves about me. So it's no surprise that when he's away he says sweet things to me. I say more sweet things to him when he is away. He's not with me for me to show him my love so I put in more effort to vocally let him know my love.
Yesterday he sent his first sweet message. He texted that he will be staying in Mississippi a while but where I am will always be "home" for him. And of course I feel that same way. Although, being at my parents' house almost feels like home...the closest thing I can get to home without Sterling and without a house of my own.
On Wednseday Sterling flew like four or five hours to New Orleans. There he stayed one night and picked up our blue car we had shipped there. That process was more difficult than it should have been. The dealership refused to be helpful so he had to take the car somewhere else to be helped with whatever it was he was trying to do.
He thought it would be fun to be in New Orleans for a night. But it turned out to be expensive and not a place for him. Parking was $28 a night and dinner was $50 at the restaurant he went to. He learned it was a party city and really had nothing for him to do. It had some historical stuff but Sterling did not enjoy his stay.
From there Sterling drove an hour and a half to where he is staying in Mississippi. He got settled onto the base, into his base hotel, and did grocery shopping.
Sunday morning he went for a walk on the beach. He met a fisherman and talked with him a while. Then he got dressed for church and went and found the church.
I went to my parents' ward. I gave my name and phone number to a family who has a down syndrome toddler boy. The mother has a medical condition that leaves her in pain all the time. She has a nanny but for some reason needs a babysitter every Wednesday during the school year. I decided that's something I can do to help while I am here.
I also learned when Choir is. 4:15pm Sundays. I want to attend. I also want to perform a musical number in sacrament, for my family to hear. So I need to find out if the bishop allows spiritual LDS musical numbers to be performed that are not "hymns." I really hope so.
Lachoneus has been really destructive lately. Breaking everything. He even broke my parents walkway lights, three of them. So he has to work for my mom to earn money to pay off the lights. I don't know what to do with him.
His stutter is still doing well. In Italy his stutter was so horrible. It's the one thing I worry about when it comes to him starting Kindergarten in January. But in Utah and in Idaho when he visited Jon and his family, he barely stuttered at all. He started to do it more when he started getting comfortable and use to the Roundy's home. But then he came to Logandale and his stutter was gone again. He did stutter yesterday one time. I am glad his stutter is better! I hope it stays that way!!!
Ty and Luke both have better health since we came back to America. Ty's tummy aches he use to get atleast every other day rarely happen now. Luke's allergies have gotten so much better. It seems his problems with breathing and coughing were either from 1)the mold in our house in Italy or 2)Italy/plants etc.
It was so fun! We are so in love and we are best friends. We have so much fun together.
We walked part of The Strip Wednesday night when it was dark and the lights were all lit. Shopped at M&M's world...got stuff for all of us. So fun! Saw the Belaggio water show.
Thursday morning we had breakfast together at the hotel's buffet. Then I dropped Sterling off at the airport. It's not incredibly difficult to say goodbye.
So far he's not ever been gone more than two months. And this four month one will hopefully be split in half with a visit from or to Sterling. We'll hopefully get a weekend with him.
It will get harder to be apart...as time goes on.
But Sterling has it harder than we do. The boys and I are staying with family...lots of people to socialize with, live with and enjoy. Happy and familiar. Plus, I have a ton to do between taking care of the boys, homeschooling, helping my mom (with her sewing classes she teaches and with cleaning, cooking and organizing around the house), my hobbies and enjoying time away from the boys once in a while...because I have babysitters around all the time.
Sterling is in a new place with nobody he knows, no kids to take care of and no oven and stove to cook with. I don't know how much shooting he will get to do there, if any. I know he's on the beach so there's swimming and possibly fishing. No hunting. What else does he like to do? Woodwork. He likes reading and learning but he'll be doing a lot of that for school so I don't know if he'll want to do it during his leisure time as well.
He likes movies and tv as I do.
The little boys...so far they are doing really well about daddy being gone. They do say they miss him. They have talked to him once on the phone.
The first day without Sterling I felt two things 1) Overwhelmed by how much I had put off to do while Ster is away. I had a ton to do to prepare for school which was just a few days away.
2) Strange that Sterling was so far away and would not be with me for months.
When Sterling is gone for an extended period it can be like I am a single mother. I choose our schedules and base nothing around Sterling or his schedule. I discipline the children alone.
I do have the emotional support and the love of a man...that singles mother's don't often have.
Right before Sterling left Ty started wanting us to lay with him to go to sleep. I have done well to avoid this since Luke was a baby. I don't want to have to lay with my children to get them to sleep. I want them to self sooth and fall asleep on their own.
But...Sterling started laying with Ty. Now it's a problem. Right now Ty has been in his bedroom refusing to sleep for maybe 40 minutes. I refuse to lay with him. He has gotten up saying he needs to go to the bathroom, four times. He has gotten up to tell me he wants the music turned off. Gotten up to get spankings four times. And it crying and screaming "Mommy!" He has tried "I am not taking a nap" and "I am going downstairs." I keep putting him back to bed and leaving the room.
I don't know what to do. Luke was 1 1/2 yrs old when he did this...when he moved from his crib to a bed. He would need a nap so badly but would not stay in bed. It is horrible..no fun. Now I know Ty has done this before...when he moved to a real bed, I believe. But now, at three years old, he is doing it again. He needs a nap! But he is being difficult. And I don't know if I should lay with him for five to ten minutes, as I have done at bedtime at night the last few nights, or refuse to lay with him. It's going to be a fight every time if I don't lay with him. So far laying with him just a few minutes then saying "no, you just have to go to bed" has worked.
Today is Sunday. Sterling left of Thursday morning. We have been text messaging a lot...such a wonderful blessing. We have talked on the phone once a day also.
Sterling is a romantic. He tells me sweet things when we're apart. When we're together he tells me of the things he appreciates like a clean house and yummy meals and taking care of the kids. He tells me how much he loves me and what he loves about me. So it's no surprise that when he's away he says sweet things to me. I say more sweet things to him when he is away. He's not with me for me to show him my love so I put in more effort to vocally let him know my love.
Yesterday he sent his first sweet message. He texted that he will be staying in Mississippi a while but where I am will always be "home" for him. And of course I feel that same way. Although, being at my parents' house almost feels like home...the closest thing I can get to home without Sterling and without a house of my own.
On Wednseday Sterling flew like four or five hours to New Orleans. There he stayed one night and picked up our blue car we had shipped there. That process was more difficult than it should have been. The dealership refused to be helpful so he had to take the car somewhere else to be helped with whatever it was he was trying to do.
He thought it would be fun to be in New Orleans for a night. But it turned out to be expensive and not a place for him. Parking was $28 a night and dinner was $50 at the restaurant he went to. He learned it was a party city and really had nothing for him to do. It had some historical stuff but Sterling did not enjoy his stay.
From there Sterling drove an hour and a half to where he is staying in Mississippi. He got settled onto the base, into his base hotel, and did grocery shopping.
Sunday morning he went for a walk on the beach. He met a fisherman and talked with him a while. Then he got dressed for church and went and found the church.
I went to my parents' ward. I gave my name and phone number to a family who has a down syndrome toddler boy. The mother has a medical condition that leaves her in pain all the time. She has a nanny but for some reason needs a babysitter every Wednesday during the school year. I decided that's something I can do to help while I am here.
I also learned when Choir is. 4:15pm Sundays. I want to attend. I also want to perform a musical number in sacrament, for my family to hear. So I need to find out if the bishop allows spiritual LDS musical numbers to be performed that are not "hymns." I really hope so.
Lachoneus has been really destructive lately. Breaking everything. He even broke my parents walkway lights, three of them. So he has to work for my mom to earn money to pay off the lights. I don't know what to do with him.
His stutter is still doing well. In Italy his stutter was so horrible. It's the one thing I worry about when it comes to him starting Kindergarten in January. But in Utah and in Idaho when he visited Jon and his family, he barely stuttered at all. He started to do it more when he started getting comfortable and use to the Roundy's home. But then he came to Logandale and his stutter was gone again. He did stutter yesterday one time. I am glad his stutter is better! I hope it stays that way!!!
Ty and Luke both have better health since we came back to America. Ty's tummy aches he use to get atleast every other day rarely happen now. Luke's allergies have gotten so much better. It seems his problems with breathing and coughing were either from 1)the mold in our house in Italy or 2)Italy/plants etc.
Monday, July 29, 2013
Ezra's Baptism
Friday July 26th
Around 4pm Eliza and Chubbz drove down from Salt Lake City. By 4:15p we were on the road. All 6 of us in our new van.
It is a 5 hours drive from Provo Utah to Logandale NV. We had to stop every two hours for bathroom breaks and to get the kids out.
We stopped for dinner at McDonald's and let the boys play at the playplace. Ty was tired and just wanted to eat but Luke was excited about the play area. In Italy we did not take the kids to McDonald's because it was expensive and not very good. So our kids missed out on the playplace for four years.
We got to Logandale pretty late. Stayed up late.
We saw mom and dad, Autumn, Tereasa, Jacob, Justin, Nephi, Isaiah and David that night.
Autumn in not yet 16 but she's as tall as a model. Long legs. And she does her hair and makeup as if she's 17.
Jacob just turned 13 and he looks 15. Justin is 18, graduated high school and turned in his mission papers! She's a good looking, muscled athlete. These kids are definitely David's kids! Big, built and beautiful. Tereasa is thin and beautiful but the kids definitely look like David, dark skin, eyes and hair.
All three of my little brothers are good looking. Isaiah is old enough he should be on a mission but I don't know if that's going to happen. Moroni is back from his mission and living at my parents' house. Nephi is not old enough yet but I am sure he will serve. He's always been a good boy on the right path.
Saturday morning we all got dressed for the baptism then drove down to Vegas. Eliza and Chubbz came with us. We had to stop at Walmart because I forgot to pack church clothes for the boys for our weekend trip. I did pack their Sunday shoes and socks though. We had to buy the boys new Sunday outfits at Walmart. But they needed extra clothes for church anyway.
We drove to the church on Jones and Alta...not far from the Meadows mall. It was a pretty church on the outside, though old. But the baptism started at 11am and the sun was so high that we wouldn't be able to do portraits outside in front of the building. The sun would be in our faces and everyone would squint.
Nephi and I both brought our cameras because mom wanted a group family portrait. Everyone in the family would be together for Ezra's baptism except Corinna's family. They wanted to be there too but Aaron and Nicole couldn't get the baptism planned for enough in advance for Wang and Corinna to get work off.
The baptism was nice and short. It was cute...I had never seen that before...they had two youth give the baptism talks. They were maybe 11 years old. A boy talked on baptism and a girl talked on the holy ghost. They did a great job.
They had time for anyone to bare their testimonies. Nicole's family was there and our family.
When Aaron baptized his oldest son, Ezra, it was a very emotional time. That Aaron was on the right path in life and raising his sons righteously. Aaron got chocked up trying to say the baptism prayer. The spirit was very strong in the room. I'm sure there were more than just Aaron and I crying in that room.
After the baptism we went to the gym and took a giant group portrait. Then some of just the Boren clan. Then we followed Aaron to his house for lunch. A potluck feast. It was so delicious! chili cheese dip, mexican bean dip and tons of chips, a giant fruit bowl, whipped cream apple and snicker's dessert Tereasa made, sweet beans, and much more. Nicole's family and Aaron's family ate and ate and visited. Then relaxed and chated for hours. It's Nicole's grandma's house they live at. It's a nice small house but it is in a kind of ghetto area.The houses are small, old and don't look very good on the outside. But the house Aaron lives in is very nice on the inside.
The house was full and we all just hung out all afternoon.
At 3:30p I couldn't be contained any longer. I had to get out and walk. So Ster, Chubbz, Eliza, my nephew Jacob, my little boys and I went to a park nearby. We drove there. Zack Guymon met up with us and we had a nice visit after years of not seeing each other. Well, I am not sure when Eliza saw him last. I saw him two years ago when I went back for Eliza's wedding. And Ster hadn't seen him since we lived in Vegas four years ago.
Zack is working security and now carries a gun. He is thinking about interning for a lawyer's office. He got an offer from a friend who owns one.
He is waiting for his fiance who is serving a mission. I hope that works out!
At 4:20 we went back to the house and Zack got to see everyone. Then we said goodbye. My family loaded up in our cars and went to Applebee's for dinner. We had called ahead of time to let them know a group of 22+ would be coming for dinner at 5. When we arrived we did have to wait maybe 15 minutes. They set up a whole row of tables and got it ready for us. We had an awesome dinner. The food was amazing! I was full from lunch ...so I couldn't eat much of my meal. Luckily we're in America where they do take home/doggy bags. In Italy you eat what you pay for or leave it. They don't supply take home boxes.
Sterling paid for everyone's dinner. It turned out to be less than we thought it would. $230 to feed us all.
What a wonderful day catching up with my family. Visiting, enjoying food, etc.
As we were leaving the restaurant mom suggested the girls go shopping at Ross which was nearby. So Sterling took Chubbz and the boys back to Logandale. I stayed with mom, Tereasa, Autumn and Eliza to shop. Justin and Alissa were staying the night in Vegas at Aaron and Nicole's but decided to go shopping with us.
We were there for a long time but we had fun. Bought some cute clothes.
Mom drove Tereasa, Autumn, Eliza and I back to Logandale. But we all got Frosty shakes from Wendy's first. My first time having one in two years.
Sunday morning my mom's church starts at 9am. Eliza and Chubbz, Ster and I went to that ward. I was really sleepy but was able to atleast fully enjoy Relief Society. Luke and Ty did great in Primary and Nursery. And we headed back to mom and dad's house. Lunch was amazing. The typical Boren Sunday roast, potatoes, carrots, salad and punch. MMmmmm.
Alissa and Justin joined us for lunch. Of course David and Tereasa's family was there. Lots of people together for a big meal. :)
After lunch I put in an old home video to show Sterling my 11th birthday. I was chubby. We watched home movies while mom made brownies. We celebrated July birthdays by eating brownies and ice cream! Justin, Jacob, Ezra and Luke have birthdays in July.
Then we said goodbye, loaded up the car and headed back to Provo. We made good time on that drive. We stopped for two short stops. The boys did awesome! Until we got about an hour away from the Roundy house. That's when Ty started to break down, wanting out of his car seat. We made him wait until we got to grandma's house. He survived.
Now that we've done SO MUCH travelling. We get to relax for a few weeks. Hang out in Provo 2 1/2 weeks before heading down to Logandale again.
We really did miss being with family while in Italy! So happy to be home!
Around 4pm Eliza and Chubbz drove down from Salt Lake City. By 4:15p we were on the road. All 6 of us in our new van.
It is a 5 hours drive from Provo Utah to Logandale NV. We had to stop every two hours for bathroom breaks and to get the kids out.
We stopped for dinner at McDonald's and let the boys play at the playplace. Ty was tired and just wanted to eat but Luke was excited about the play area. In Italy we did not take the kids to McDonald's because it was expensive and not very good. So our kids missed out on the playplace for four years.
We got to Logandale pretty late. Stayed up late.
We saw mom and dad, Autumn, Tereasa, Jacob, Justin, Nephi, Isaiah and David that night.
Autumn in not yet 16 but she's as tall as a model. Long legs. And she does her hair and makeup as if she's 17.
Jacob just turned 13 and he looks 15. Justin is 18, graduated high school and turned in his mission papers! She's a good looking, muscled athlete. These kids are definitely David's kids! Big, built and beautiful. Tereasa is thin and beautiful but the kids definitely look like David, dark skin, eyes and hair.
All three of my little brothers are good looking. Isaiah is old enough he should be on a mission but I don't know if that's going to happen. Moroni is back from his mission and living at my parents' house. Nephi is not old enough yet but I am sure he will serve. He's always been a good boy on the right path.
Saturday morning we all got dressed for the baptism then drove down to Vegas. Eliza and Chubbz came with us. We had to stop at Walmart because I forgot to pack church clothes for the boys for our weekend trip. I did pack their Sunday shoes and socks though. We had to buy the boys new Sunday outfits at Walmart. But they needed extra clothes for church anyway.
We drove to the church on Jones and Alta...not far from the Meadows mall. It was a pretty church on the outside, though old. But the baptism started at 11am and the sun was so high that we wouldn't be able to do portraits outside in front of the building. The sun would be in our faces and everyone would squint.
Nephi and I both brought our cameras because mom wanted a group family portrait. Everyone in the family would be together for Ezra's baptism except Corinna's family. They wanted to be there too but Aaron and Nicole couldn't get the baptism planned for enough in advance for Wang and Corinna to get work off.
The baptism was nice and short. It was cute...I had never seen that before...they had two youth give the baptism talks. They were maybe 11 years old. A boy talked on baptism and a girl talked on the holy ghost. They did a great job.
They had time for anyone to bare their testimonies. Nicole's family was there and our family.
When Aaron baptized his oldest son, Ezra, it was a very emotional time. That Aaron was on the right path in life and raising his sons righteously. Aaron got chocked up trying to say the baptism prayer. The spirit was very strong in the room. I'm sure there were more than just Aaron and I crying in that room.
After the baptism we went to the gym and took a giant group portrait. Then some of just the Boren clan. Then we followed Aaron to his house for lunch. A potluck feast. It was so delicious! chili cheese dip, mexican bean dip and tons of chips, a giant fruit bowl, whipped cream apple and snicker's dessert Tereasa made, sweet beans, and much more. Nicole's family and Aaron's family ate and ate and visited. Then relaxed and chated for hours. It's Nicole's grandma's house they live at. It's a nice small house but it is in a kind of ghetto area.The houses are small, old and don't look very good on the outside. But the house Aaron lives in is very nice on the inside.
The house was full and we all just hung out all afternoon.
At 3:30p I couldn't be contained any longer. I had to get out and walk. So Ster, Chubbz, Eliza, my nephew Jacob, my little boys and I went to a park nearby. We drove there. Zack Guymon met up with us and we had a nice visit after years of not seeing each other. Well, I am not sure when Eliza saw him last. I saw him two years ago when I went back for Eliza's wedding. And Ster hadn't seen him since we lived in Vegas four years ago.
Zack is working security and now carries a gun. He is thinking about interning for a lawyer's office. He got an offer from a friend who owns one.
He is waiting for his fiance who is serving a mission. I hope that works out!
At 4:20 we went back to the house and Zack got to see everyone. Then we said goodbye. My family loaded up in our cars and went to Applebee's for dinner. We had called ahead of time to let them know a group of 22+ would be coming for dinner at 5. When we arrived we did have to wait maybe 15 minutes. They set up a whole row of tables and got it ready for us. We had an awesome dinner. The food was amazing! I was full from lunch ...so I couldn't eat much of my meal. Luckily we're in America where they do take home/doggy bags. In Italy you eat what you pay for or leave it. They don't supply take home boxes.
Sterling paid for everyone's dinner. It turned out to be less than we thought it would. $230 to feed us all.
What a wonderful day catching up with my family. Visiting, enjoying food, etc.
As we were leaving the restaurant mom suggested the girls go shopping at Ross which was nearby. So Sterling took Chubbz and the boys back to Logandale. I stayed with mom, Tereasa, Autumn and Eliza to shop. Justin and Alissa were staying the night in Vegas at Aaron and Nicole's but decided to go shopping with us.
We were there for a long time but we had fun. Bought some cute clothes.
Mom drove Tereasa, Autumn, Eliza and I back to Logandale. But we all got Frosty shakes from Wendy's first. My first time having one in two years.
Sunday morning my mom's church starts at 9am. Eliza and Chubbz, Ster and I went to that ward. I was really sleepy but was able to atleast fully enjoy Relief Society. Luke and Ty did great in Primary and Nursery. And we headed back to mom and dad's house. Lunch was amazing. The typical Boren Sunday roast, potatoes, carrots, salad and punch. MMmmmm.
Alissa and Justin joined us for lunch. Of course David and Tereasa's family was there. Lots of people together for a big meal. :)
After lunch I put in an old home video to show Sterling my 11th birthday. I was chubby. We watched home movies while mom made brownies. We celebrated July birthdays by eating brownies and ice cream! Justin, Jacob, Ezra and Luke have birthdays in July.
Then we said goodbye, loaded up the car and headed back to Provo. We made good time on that drive. We stopped for two short stops. The boys did awesome! Until we got about an hour away from the Roundy house. That's when Ty started to break down, wanting out of his car seat. We made him wait until we got to grandma's house. He survived.
Now that we've done SO MUCH travelling. We get to relax for a few weeks. Hang out in Provo 2 1/2 weeks before heading down to Logandale again.
We really did miss being with family while in Italy! So happy to be home!
Friday, July 5, 2013
Felt the baby at 12 wks
Four days ago I did not look pregnant. I felt so fat. Two days ago I realized I might be starting to show. Yesterday I decided I am definitely showing. Some shirts make me just look like my stomach has gotten fat and some shirts/dresses make me look so pregnant!
I am turning 12 weeks tomorrow!
I feel so much better about the way I look now that I know it's not all just fat and weight I gained because of me...it's the baby!
I was planning to have nobody in my current ward being able to see that I'm pregnant. I have two Sundays left, Luke's birthday party this evening, and a goodbye party from the ward for the three families who are moving away. So I am betting some of the people are going to wonder "Is Tiffany pregnant?!" I doubt anyone would dare ask ...in case I am not pregnant.
I have felt the baby swim around in there a couple of times at night. Then this afternoon as I was walking over to sit with Sterling on the couch I felt as though the baby were leaning against my stomach wall. I felt it with my fingers. I thought "How can I feel the baby this early?" I sat down and Sterling was sitting so close his arm was pushing against my stomach. Then he and I both felt the baby lean against the wall where his arm was.
Between this and the ultrasound, where the baby was moving around like crazy and playing with the umbilical cord....I think this child must have some super powers....atleast super strength and brain power! lol
The only one here who knows I am pregnant is Melanie Archuletta. I call her up to tell her baby stuff I'm excited about...new things that happen. Because she's on the same time zone as me, being here and not in America, convenient times to call for me are the same as for her.
This pregnancy has been so different from the first two. My body seems to be doing everything sooner because it's done it twice before and knows the routine.
I am turning 12 weeks tomorrow!
I feel so much better about the way I look now that I know it's not all just fat and weight I gained because of me...it's the baby!
I was planning to have nobody in my current ward being able to see that I'm pregnant. I have two Sundays left, Luke's birthday party this evening, and a goodbye party from the ward for the three families who are moving away. So I am betting some of the people are going to wonder "Is Tiffany pregnant?!" I doubt anyone would dare ask ...in case I am not pregnant.
I have felt the baby swim around in there a couple of times at night. Then this afternoon as I was walking over to sit with Sterling on the couch I felt as though the baby were leaning against my stomach wall. I felt it with my fingers. I thought "How can I feel the baby this early?" I sat down and Sterling was sitting so close his arm was pushing against my stomach. Then he and I both felt the baby lean against the wall where his arm was.
Between this and the ultrasound, where the baby was moving around like crazy and playing with the umbilical cord....I think this child must have some super powers....atleast super strength and brain power! lol
The only one here who knows I am pregnant is Melanie Archuletta. I call her up to tell her baby stuff I'm excited about...new things that happen. Because she's on the same time zone as me, being here and not in America, convenient times to call for me are the same as for her.
This pregnancy has been so different from the first two. My body seems to be doing everything sooner because it's done it twice before and knows the routine.
Monday, July 1, 2013
1st Ultrasound 3rd baby
This morning I went to the hospital for my 10 wk OBGYN appointment. Sterling works 2p-10p so he was home to watch the kids.
I was expecting they would simply listen to the sound of the baby's heartbeat. I think I remember them just doing that at my 10 wk with Tiberias at this base. So that's what I expected.
Sterling's been to a few ultrasounds but none have been that cool. Not cool enough to make him want to go to an ultrasound.
Anyway, I got there and found out Ster could have come and brought the kids. I'm just not allowed to take the kids without another adult to supervise them.
And it turned out they were doing a full ultrasound today.
The baby is father along than the doctor's thought. Even though I had told them when the baby was conceived exactly. We knew.
The baby was much more formed and active than I imagined! That baby, during the ultrasound, would not hold still for more than a second. It was moving all over. And it was so funny...it was playing with the umbilical cord! Kicking it, grabbing it, pushing it! I never thought I'd see something like that! hilarious!
Funnest ultrasound ever! Too bad Sterling missed it. My bad.
It was amazing to see my baby! And so active and silly. It makes it so much more real. It makes it feel like I'm farther along too. I wish they could give us a recorded dvd of the ultrasound! That would be way cooler than the pictures. The pictures suck actually.
I am over 11 wks along. Some places can give you an ultrasound to determine the gender as early as 12 or 13 weeks! So When we are in Provo visiting Sterling's family we are going to pay for an ultrasound....otherwise I have to wait until Sterling is already in Mississippi for training at my 20 wk mark. The military hospital will only do one...at 20 weeks.
I won't have another appointment at this base. In six weeks I am to go in again but I'll be in Logandale, NV by then. In two weeks we'll be almost leaving Italy.
I am planning to have a doctor at Nellis' hospital. When Ster and I get to Logandale we'll go to Vegas and see if we can get me set up to be seen there until December.
The due date is January 18 2014! :)
It's so weird to think that the year will be 2014....so futuristic. I live in the future. Weird.
Sterling and I are doing GREAT! Just before he left for work, I had come home from the ultrasound and was cutting up our 4th of July week watermelon, Sterling said "Our life really is perfect!" And that's how we feel. We love our life together! We'll love it in South Dakota too. No matter where we go together we'll be happy.
This week is a holiday...Independance Day. This week for school the boys and I are going to only do America based stuff. Making decorations for the holiday for our house, learning a patriotic song (I have not picked which one yet) and learning a little about America's history. I love the first week of July!!!
Sterling wishes we could be in Provo to celebrate the 4th this year. I told him...next year we'll drive to Provo for the 4th of July!
Luke's birthday party is also this week...way fun! I'm making him a checkered (when you cut the cake you see checkers) ice cream and cake kind of cake. It'll have checkers of chocolate ice cream and green (Luke's favorite color) cake! And of course it'll be decorated Wreck It Ralph racing in Sugar Rush Land.
Last Saturday we organized a bunch of our belongings. Took everything out of the attic and stored in neatly in our spare room for the movers. Next Tuesday the movers come to pack up our stuff. Tomorrow they come to get a look at our belongings and see how many boxes they think they'll need and if we have any items that need special sized packaging.
Life is sweet. :)
Love, Tiffany
I was expecting they would simply listen to the sound of the baby's heartbeat. I think I remember them just doing that at my 10 wk with Tiberias at this base. So that's what I expected.
Sterling's been to a few ultrasounds but none have been that cool. Not cool enough to make him want to go to an ultrasound.
Anyway, I got there and found out Ster could have come and brought the kids. I'm just not allowed to take the kids without another adult to supervise them.
And it turned out they were doing a full ultrasound today.
The baby is father along than the doctor's thought. Even though I had told them when the baby was conceived exactly. We knew.
The baby was much more formed and active than I imagined! That baby, during the ultrasound, would not hold still for more than a second. It was moving all over. And it was so funny...it was playing with the umbilical cord! Kicking it, grabbing it, pushing it! I never thought I'd see something like that! hilarious!
Funnest ultrasound ever! Too bad Sterling missed it. My bad.
It was amazing to see my baby! And so active and silly. It makes it so much more real. It makes it feel like I'm farther along too. I wish they could give us a recorded dvd of the ultrasound! That would be way cooler than the pictures. The pictures suck actually.
I am over 11 wks along. Some places can give you an ultrasound to determine the gender as early as 12 or 13 weeks! So When we are in Provo visiting Sterling's family we are going to pay for an ultrasound....otherwise I have to wait until Sterling is already in Mississippi for training at my 20 wk mark. The military hospital will only do one...at 20 weeks.
I won't have another appointment at this base. In six weeks I am to go in again but I'll be in Logandale, NV by then. In two weeks we'll be almost leaving Italy.
I am planning to have a doctor at Nellis' hospital. When Ster and I get to Logandale we'll go to Vegas and see if we can get me set up to be seen there until December.
The due date is January 18 2014! :)
It's so weird to think that the year will be 2014....so futuristic. I live in the future. Weird.
Sterling and I are doing GREAT! Just before he left for work, I had come home from the ultrasound and was cutting up our 4th of July week watermelon, Sterling said "Our life really is perfect!" And that's how we feel. We love our life together! We'll love it in South Dakota too. No matter where we go together we'll be happy.
This week is a holiday...Independance Day. This week for school the boys and I are going to only do America based stuff. Making decorations for the holiday for our house, learning a patriotic song (I have not picked which one yet) and learning a little about America's history. I love the first week of July!!!
Sterling wishes we could be in Provo to celebrate the 4th this year. I told him...next year we'll drive to Provo for the 4th of July!
Luke's birthday party is also this week...way fun! I'm making him a checkered (when you cut the cake you see checkers) ice cream and cake kind of cake. It'll have checkers of chocolate ice cream and green (Luke's favorite color) cake! And of course it'll be decorated Wreck It Ralph racing in Sugar Rush Land.
Last Saturday we organized a bunch of our belongings. Took everything out of the attic and stored in neatly in our spare room for the movers. Next Tuesday the movers come to pack up our stuff. Tomorrow they come to get a look at our belongings and see how many boxes they think they'll need and if we have any items that need special sized packaging.
Life is sweet. :)
Love, Tiffany
Sunday, June 16, 2013
Beach, hike, baptism, party, Father's day
We have had a pretty fun filled long weekend!
Thursday was Ster's last work day of the week. Friday was a family day.
So Thursday when Ster came home from work we decided last minute to go to the beach in Lignano. We got ready to go to the beach and got into the car only to realize our gas coupons were no where. It seems they have been stolen out of our car AGAIN! We lock our car doors all the time. But somehow it must have been unlocked at night a few times and someone came and stole them. We know that people come and check the American's cars to steal stuff out of.
Maybe the kids push the unlock button on the car keychain and we don't know it sometimes.
Anyway, that's a lot of money lost. We pay for gas coupons and then use those to gas up. It makes gas cheaper than buying it straight off the economy. But you have to get the coupons at the BX on base and you only get a certain amount per month.
So we drove to the base and bought our coupons but now we are done. We can't get anymore before we move. So these CANNOT be stolen! And we can't drive and use them all up before the move.
So we headed off to the beach late. It would be dinner time when we got there. We were a little stressed to start. But when we got to Lignano we stopped at an Italian grocery store for sandwhich meat, cheese and bread...after failing to find a restaraunt that was open. They don't open until 7pm.
We made sandwiches at the beach and ate snacks. But the boys were much more into playing than eating! Ty had been asking to go to the beach for a few months! As soon as it started warming up.
Cute story...Ster and I were sitting on towels eating and watching the boys play. Ty had crossed a shallow water and was on a little isle between two bodies of water. He stepped into the water and then saw a crab. He said "Run away!" and started running. But he was too scared to go in any of the water so he ran around in one big circle and started crying! He ran so fast! He was terrified. It was sad but funny at the same time. Sterling went to his rescue.
Friday morning we went on a hike. Both boys walked and we went on a long hike! To encourage Tiberias to keep walking I told him "You need to walk like a big boy because when we have the baby you will be the big brother. You are not the baby anymore." And he did it! Both boys made it through the whole hike! Ster and I were impressed!
Then we went to the base and shopped.
We went home for lunch. I finished decorating a cake for a baptism/birthday. Kristina Christiansen, a girl in my primary class, was getting baptized that day. I made her a cake in her favorite color...rainbow! The cake itself was rainbow! Then I decorated it with fondant...a CTR shield, spring flowers and "Congratulations Kristina" written on it.
That afternoon I went to Kristina's baptism. I gave the talk on the Holy Ghost and her mother gave the talk on baptism. I was honored to be asked.
After the baptism we made homemade pizza as a family. After dinner we went to the Christiansen home for Kristina's birthday party. Their house is huge and awesome! Their yard is the same way.
There were few people at the baptism but tons at the party.
Saturday morning Sterling went jogging then we did pushups and situps. After that I was sick...pregnancy sickness. I will be SO surprised if it's not a girl! I wasn't sick with both boys but this time I am sick. I have a few days of being sick then a few days of feeling great then a few days of sick again. I am 7 weeks along.
Anyway, in the afternoon we went over to the Archuletta's house. They have a pool and two kids, Calvin and Penny. My boys LOVE going over there to swim!
Melanie, Joe, Ster and I ate cookies I made and drank cool water in the shade while the kids swam.
That evening Ster and I wanted to go on a date for dinner but we couldn't find a sitter because it was a four day weekend. So instead we took the kids with us to the Spaghetti House. It was a yummy dinner. We had fun!
Sunday, today, is Father's day. Sterling left early for church meetings as usual.
Once Sterling was gone we decorated in honor of Father's day. We had previously made two mobiles that hang from the ceiling...using cardboard circles, colored string, pinecones, beads, felt stars and planets, and photos of Sterling with the kids, or our family. I also had cut out tons of paper ties that the boys hung around the room. And I made a bunch of those ties to hang in a row as a banner that says "Happy Father's day."
Sterling has started a tradition this year...that when we have presents to give someone we hide them in the living room and make the receiver find them first. So we did that for Sterling this morning.
We went to church and met Sterling there. After church, at home, Sterling found his gifts. A framed "I love you Dad" picture of Luke that is a magnet he made at school, a tshirt I drew a car road and side house, tree, dog, etc. That way Ster can lay down and the boys can drive cars on his back...maybe it feels good.
The third gift is a new toothbrush...the vibrating kind he likes.
We had chicken and potatoes for a later lunch. I made chocolate chip cookies for dinner. Then we went on a walk as a family. On the walk Ster and I planned Luke's birthday party.
For Luke's 5th birthday party we are going to celebrate two days early. His birthday is on a Sunday. His party will be the 5th at 7pm. It's the heat of Summer so we'll do it at night. It's Independence day weekend but everyone has to work on Friday the 5th so his friends should be in town for the party.
We'll have it at Freedom park on base under the big pavilion. We'll find a kiddie pool to borrow, fill it up with the water spout there, and supply water balloons for the kids in the heat. We'll supply ice cold water, ice cream (maybe ice cream sandwiches) for the parents and a Wreck It Ralph cake that is going to rock! We're moving so it'll be a "No need to bring a gift" party.And the very next week we'll be moving out of our house and into the military hotel (TLF).
This week we ship our car. We're borrowing a car from one of Ster's work buddies.
This Wednesday I am hosting Faith in God girls as I do every month. The girls are going to plan an activity for parents and children to do together in the ward. They'll pick the activity, details, date, place and time. They will also make their own digital flyers on my computer while snacking.
Then before I move away I will oversee the event. But my goal is for the girls' parents to get involved and do most of the work. It's a big thing to take on right before I move... hopefully it works out.
We are so excited about going back to America to spend time with family! And trying to enjoy Italy while we are still here...since we can't leave until July 15. If we could go sooner we would.
Thursday was Ster's last work day of the week. Friday was a family day.
So Thursday when Ster came home from work we decided last minute to go to the beach in Lignano. We got ready to go to the beach and got into the car only to realize our gas coupons were no where. It seems they have been stolen out of our car AGAIN! We lock our car doors all the time. But somehow it must have been unlocked at night a few times and someone came and stole them. We know that people come and check the American's cars to steal stuff out of.
Maybe the kids push the unlock button on the car keychain and we don't know it sometimes.
Anyway, that's a lot of money lost. We pay for gas coupons and then use those to gas up. It makes gas cheaper than buying it straight off the economy. But you have to get the coupons at the BX on base and you only get a certain amount per month.
So we drove to the base and bought our coupons but now we are done. We can't get anymore before we move. So these CANNOT be stolen! And we can't drive and use them all up before the move.
So we headed off to the beach late. It would be dinner time when we got there. We were a little stressed to start. But when we got to Lignano we stopped at an Italian grocery store for sandwhich meat, cheese and bread...after failing to find a restaraunt that was open. They don't open until 7pm.
We made sandwiches at the beach and ate snacks. But the boys were much more into playing than eating! Ty had been asking to go to the beach for a few months! As soon as it started warming up.
Cute story...Ster and I were sitting on towels eating and watching the boys play. Ty had crossed a shallow water and was on a little isle between two bodies of water. He stepped into the water and then saw a crab. He said "Run away!" and started running. But he was too scared to go in any of the water so he ran around in one big circle and started crying! He ran so fast! He was terrified. It was sad but funny at the same time. Sterling went to his rescue.
Friday morning we went on a hike. Both boys walked and we went on a long hike! To encourage Tiberias to keep walking I told him "You need to walk like a big boy because when we have the baby you will be the big brother. You are not the baby anymore." And he did it! Both boys made it through the whole hike! Ster and I were impressed!
Then we went to the base and shopped.
We went home for lunch. I finished decorating a cake for a baptism/birthday. Kristina Christiansen, a girl in my primary class, was getting baptized that day. I made her a cake in her favorite color...rainbow! The cake itself was rainbow! Then I decorated it with fondant...a CTR shield, spring flowers and "Congratulations Kristina" written on it.
That afternoon I went to Kristina's baptism. I gave the talk on the Holy Ghost and her mother gave the talk on baptism. I was honored to be asked.
After the baptism we made homemade pizza as a family. After dinner we went to the Christiansen home for Kristina's birthday party. Their house is huge and awesome! Their yard is the same way.
There were few people at the baptism but tons at the party.
Saturday morning Sterling went jogging then we did pushups and situps. After that I was sick...pregnancy sickness. I will be SO surprised if it's not a girl! I wasn't sick with both boys but this time I am sick. I have a few days of being sick then a few days of feeling great then a few days of sick again. I am 7 weeks along.
Anyway, in the afternoon we went over to the Archuletta's house. They have a pool and two kids, Calvin and Penny. My boys LOVE going over there to swim!
Melanie, Joe, Ster and I ate cookies I made and drank cool water in the shade while the kids swam.
That evening Ster and I wanted to go on a date for dinner but we couldn't find a sitter because it was a four day weekend. So instead we took the kids with us to the Spaghetti House. It was a yummy dinner. We had fun!
Sunday, today, is Father's day. Sterling left early for church meetings as usual.
Once Sterling was gone we decorated in honor of Father's day. We had previously made two mobiles that hang from the ceiling...using cardboard circles, colored string, pinecones, beads, felt stars and planets, and photos of Sterling with the kids, or our family. I also had cut out tons of paper ties that the boys hung around the room. And I made a bunch of those ties to hang in a row as a banner that says "Happy Father's day."
Sterling has started a tradition this year...that when we have presents to give someone we hide them in the living room and make the receiver find them first. So we did that for Sterling this morning.
We went to church and met Sterling there. After church, at home, Sterling found his gifts. A framed "I love you Dad" picture of Luke that is a magnet he made at school, a tshirt I drew a car road and side house, tree, dog, etc. That way Ster can lay down and the boys can drive cars on his back...maybe it feels good.
The third gift is a new toothbrush...the vibrating kind he likes.
We had chicken and potatoes for a later lunch. I made chocolate chip cookies for dinner. Then we went on a walk as a family. On the walk Ster and I planned Luke's birthday party.
For Luke's 5th birthday party we are going to celebrate two days early. His birthday is on a Sunday. His party will be the 5th at 7pm. It's the heat of Summer so we'll do it at night. It's Independence day weekend but everyone has to work on Friday the 5th so his friends should be in town for the party.
We'll have it at Freedom park on base under the big pavilion. We'll find a kiddie pool to borrow, fill it up with the water spout there, and supply water balloons for the kids in the heat. We'll supply ice cold water, ice cream (maybe ice cream sandwiches) for the parents and a Wreck It Ralph cake that is going to rock! We're moving so it'll be a "No need to bring a gift" party.And the very next week we'll be moving out of our house and into the military hotel (TLF).
This week we ship our car. We're borrowing a car from one of Ster's work buddies.
This Wednesday I am hosting Faith in God girls as I do every month. The girls are going to plan an activity for parents and children to do together in the ward. They'll pick the activity, details, date, place and time. They will also make their own digital flyers on my computer while snacking.
Then before I move away I will oversee the event. But my goal is for the girls' parents to get involved and do most of the work. It's a big thing to take on right before I move... hopefully it works out.
We are so excited about going back to America to spend time with family! And trying to enjoy Italy while we are still here...since we can't leave until July 15. If we could go sooner we would.
Monday, June 10, 2013
Early Stages of Pregnancy/Preparing for a crazy Summer-Fall
I am six weeks pregnant with my third child.
Sterling and I have been very blessed to have no pregnancy troubles and no problems getting pregnant. We have planned all three pregnancies.
My first two pregnancies were easy. No sickness with Luke and only some nausea a little while when Pregnant with Ty.
Six weeks is not far at all and feeling sick usually happens the first trimester so I think I have atleast another month and a half that I'm likely to get sick.
I felt sick a few days...a few weeks ago. And then I was fine for a while. Then today I've felt really nauseated. I have yet to ever actually throw up during a pregnancy though.
I really want a daughter this time and if that means being sick...so be it.
Tomorrow is my first OBGYN appointment. I think I am just seeing a nurse. Then the first week of July I will have my first appointment with a doctor about my pregnancy. Then I will move...mid July. We're going back to America.
I will be spending time in Logandale with my parents and time in Provo with Sterling's family all summer and fall.
This year we are going to follow the weather extremes. All Summer I will be in the heat of Provo and Vegas (of course, Vegas is much worse than Provo). Then in December we'll move to South Dakota just in time for Winter...terribly cold winter.
We have told nobody except our little boys that we are pregnant. We are waiting until July when we are with our families to tell the exciting news. It is so hard to keep it a secret! I don't talk to my family much but it is so hard not to tell my friends here in Italy!
We are so excited to have another baby! Me especially! I want a tiny baby and I can hardly wait! Nine months is such a long time. Yet, we planned the pregnancy so the baby would be born after we get settled into a new house in South Dakota. Sterling will be in Mississippi August-December this year and I don't want to have the baby without him.
We didn't want to have the baby while living in Italy. Pregnancy and newborn babies make it hard to travel.
It will definitely be a Summer feeling Summer this year. Even though Sterling won't be with us to have a wonderful fun Summer, Luke, Ty and I will go swimming a lot and play with friends. Eat pop sickles and ice cream.
We are going to get a pass to go to this cool new community center in Provo that has swimming and indoor playgrounds and a gym and more!
I just don't know where I am going to have a doctor. Nellis AFB in Vegas seems the best choice but then I will have to plan my visits to family based off of doctor appointments. I don't think I can have two doctors...two separate hospitals for this.
It will be an interesting four months!
I look forward to spending time with Autumn and Jacob and maybe Justin. Justin just graduated high school and I don't know what his plans are for the rest of this year. He has accomplished a lot in high school. He did multiple sports and even clubs I think. Plus, he's buff and a handsome boy. If he serves a mission and stays strong in the church he should be able to find an amazing and beautiful wife with ease.
I am SO EXCITED to spend time with Eliza and Alissa! Of course it's Eliza and Florencio....and Alissa, Justin and baby James!
I am so excited to see everyone! It is going to be an amazing Summer/Fall...I hope. It will be hard not having Sterling there! He makes everything more fun. And it just isn't quite right if he's not there.
Plus, I will want to spend a lot of time with Zack and I wish Ster could as well...to get to know Zack better.
Tomorrow is Luke's last day of school. His second school year and it was a success just like the previous year.
It has been maybe 6 months that Luke has been stuttering and it's not getting better. I am worried about it. Experts say not to let Luke know you are aware of the stuttering. Be patient, pay attention to him and don't point out that he's stuttering. We've done that so far...but when we go visit family we're going to have to tell everyone not to point it out and to be patient. And I'm worried kids will point it out to him and make him feel bad.
He will be starting Kindergarten late because we won't have a home until the end of the year atleast. Hopefully we'll have a home by Christmas!
I will homeschool him...it will give me more to do...until we move to South Dakota. So he'll start Kindergarten half way in the school year. However, he's already smart and passed the kids in his class in education. I'm teaching Luke to read. He doesn't like to read books but he doesn't mind if I spell and word and have him read it to me. So that's what I do.
Like this; will fat cow
hill hat chow
mill mat now
bill splat how
He has started writing on his own. He likes to make signs...write on paper and tape it up. If it's small words he can spell most of them but he asks me if he needs help.
One major problem he has is Gg. He can never remember how to write a g. So we're working on that. His teachers have suggested I help him by asking him "who, what, when, why, where" during stories. And to ask him what he thinks happened before or what will happen next?
By kindergarten Luke will be a reader. And I pray his stuttering will be gone!
Father's day is coming up! This week the boys and I will make decorations and cards. I cut out a bunch of paper ties (men's ties) to hang on a string or tape on the wall. We might put the letters to "Happy Father's Day" on the ties. We are going to make some signs that say things the boys love doing with their dad and things they love about him.
We are moving soon so dad isn't getting much gift-wise. He is getting a new pair of running shoes...which Ster will pick out himself.
He is also getting a gag gift...a white tshirt with a drawn car track on the back. So he can lay on the floor and the boys will drive their cars around his back...maybe it will feel good.
I found another idea I would love to do but I don't have the resources here. It's a wall hanging tie rack. You hang your ties on it. Sterling has a lot of ties and he hangs them on hangers. They fall off and are never in the same spot. But I can't find a wood rack with dowels coming out of it...here. If I had I would paint it and put the words "You tie us together" on it. Maybe next June. :)
Sterling and I have been very blessed to have no pregnancy troubles and no problems getting pregnant. We have planned all three pregnancies.
My first two pregnancies were easy. No sickness with Luke and only some nausea a little while when Pregnant with Ty.
Six weeks is not far at all and feeling sick usually happens the first trimester so I think I have atleast another month and a half that I'm likely to get sick.
I felt sick a few days...a few weeks ago. And then I was fine for a while. Then today I've felt really nauseated. I have yet to ever actually throw up during a pregnancy though.
I really want a daughter this time and if that means being sick...so be it.
Tomorrow is my first OBGYN appointment. I think I am just seeing a nurse. Then the first week of July I will have my first appointment with a doctor about my pregnancy. Then I will move...mid July. We're going back to America.
I will be spending time in Logandale with my parents and time in Provo with Sterling's family all summer and fall.
This year we are going to follow the weather extremes. All Summer I will be in the heat of Provo and Vegas (of course, Vegas is much worse than Provo). Then in December we'll move to South Dakota just in time for Winter...terribly cold winter.
We have told nobody except our little boys that we are pregnant. We are waiting until July when we are with our families to tell the exciting news. It is so hard to keep it a secret! I don't talk to my family much but it is so hard not to tell my friends here in Italy!
We are so excited to have another baby! Me especially! I want a tiny baby and I can hardly wait! Nine months is such a long time. Yet, we planned the pregnancy so the baby would be born after we get settled into a new house in South Dakota. Sterling will be in Mississippi August-December this year and I don't want to have the baby without him.
We didn't want to have the baby while living in Italy. Pregnancy and newborn babies make it hard to travel.
It will definitely be a Summer feeling Summer this year. Even though Sterling won't be with us to have a wonderful fun Summer, Luke, Ty and I will go swimming a lot and play with friends. Eat pop sickles and ice cream.
We are going to get a pass to go to this cool new community center in Provo that has swimming and indoor playgrounds and a gym and more!
I just don't know where I am going to have a doctor. Nellis AFB in Vegas seems the best choice but then I will have to plan my visits to family based off of doctor appointments. I don't think I can have two doctors...two separate hospitals for this.
It will be an interesting four months!
I look forward to spending time with Autumn and Jacob and maybe Justin. Justin just graduated high school and I don't know what his plans are for the rest of this year. He has accomplished a lot in high school. He did multiple sports and even clubs I think. Plus, he's buff and a handsome boy. If he serves a mission and stays strong in the church he should be able to find an amazing and beautiful wife with ease.
I am SO EXCITED to spend time with Eliza and Alissa! Of course it's Eliza and Florencio....and Alissa, Justin and baby James!
I am so excited to see everyone! It is going to be an amazing Summer/Fall...I hope. It will be hard not having Sterling there! He makes everything more fun. And it just isn't quite right if he's not there.
Plus, I will want to spend a lot of time with Zack and I wish Ster could as well...to get to know Zack better.
Tomorrow is Luke's last day of school. His second school year and it was a success just like the previous year.
It has been maybe 6 months that Luke has been stuttering and it's not getting better. I am worried about it. Experts say not to let Luke know you are aware of the stuttering. Be patient, pay attention to him and don't point out that he's stuttering. We've done that so far...but when we go visit family we're going to have to tell everyone not to point it out and to be patient. And I'm worried kids will point it out to him and make him feel bad.
He will be starting Kindergarten late because we won't have a home until the end of the year atleast. Hopefully we'll have a home by Christmas!
I will homeschool him...it will give me more to do...until we move to South Dakota. So he'll start Kindergarten half way in the school year. However, he's already smart and passed the kids in his class in education. I'm teaching Luke to read. He doesn't like to read books but he doesn't mind if I spell and word and have him read it to me. So that's what I do.
Like this; will fat cow
hill hat chow
mill mat now
bill splat how
He has started writing on his own. He likes to make signs...write on paper and tape it up. If it's small words he can spell most of them but he asks me if he needs help.
One major problem he has is Gg. He can never remember how to write a g. So we're working on that. His teachers have suggested I help him by asking him "who, what, when, why, where" during stories. And to ask him what he thinks happened before or what will happen next?
By kindergarten Luke will be a reader. And I pray his stuttering will be gone!
Father's day is coming up! This week the boys and I will make decorations and cards. I cut out a bunch of paper ties (men's ties) to hang on a string or tape on the wall. We might put the letters to "Happy Father's Day" on the ties. We are going to make some signs that say things the boys love doing with their dad and things they love about him.
We are moving soon so dad isn't getting much gift-wise. He is getting a new pair of running shoes...which Ster will pick out himself.
He is also getting a gag gift...a white tshirt with a drawn car track on the back. So he can lay on the floor and the boys will drive their cars around his back...maybe it will feel good.
I found another idea I would love to do but I don't have the resources here. It's a wall hanging tie rack. You hang your ties on it. Sterling has a lot of ties and he hangs them on hangers. They fall off and are never in the same spot. But I can't find a wood rack with dowels coming out of it...here. If I had I would paint it and put the words "You tie us together" on it. Maybe next June. :)
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